An Open Letter to the Men of Whitaker Gateway Park

Men,

I’ve been running by you for months now. But this morning was noticeably different. For one, there were so many more of us in the park today.

Usually, I’m the only runner in the park. Let’s be real. It’s not a big park so you may wonder, “Why is he running through it?” It’s strategic…water and potty break.

Usually, the others of you are a mix of Sarasota Bay Club residents, construction workers, and early morning risers. Some out for a walk, some gathering to work, some taking in the view.

The second noticeable difference this morning was a group of five other runners who ran by me as I exited the park to head downtown. Noticeably younger and, of course, noticeably faster. You actually said “Good morning” to me first, which I appreciated. A few-seconds interaction, but noteworthy.

You answered my curiosity why I’ve never seen your generation in the park when one of you caught up with me after we’d circled through downtown. You asked, “Am I headed in the right direction for New College?” Fellow explorers…different age, different pace, but on the same journey.

When I stopped for a drink, I couldn’t help but think about our age difference. Probably close to 40 years. So much life ahead of you. I hope you keep moving for your next 40 years.

And then I saw the most memorable difference that will reside in my mind for a long time. Circling around the park to head back home, there you were, Mr. Pullup Bar user. My guess is you live in Sarasota Bay Club. I’d guess you’re the age my father would be. But you are the first of your generation that I’ve seen do more than walk the park trail. You stopped and challenged yourself. Maybe you do it all the time. I hope so. It’s just we’ve never simultaneously been at it at the same time in the park. Maybe we’ll do it again and I’ll stop to chat, if you’re up for it. I’d like to tell you that you are an inspiration.

I always struggle to remember the name of this park. When I googled it, I found a post that told its story. The park is named after William Whitaker who homesteaded there in the 1840s. His descendant had stopped by with his family, 180 years later.

Men have been coming in and out of Whitaker Park for well over 180 years. Who knows the history prior? What I know is the men in the park this morning were moving…challenging themselves, maintaining discipline, committed to rise above the norm.

To the pack of five students, keep moving.

To our senior who doesn’t have to, keep pulling up.

To the men of Whitaker Park, stay committed to rise above the norm.

See you next Saturday!

Hurrying Is Human

To begin his podcast episode entitled “Quiet Compounding,” Morgan Housel shared this quote by Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu: “Nature is not in a hurry, yet everything is accomplished.” Housel then added these thoughts:

So think about giant sequoias, and advanced organisms, and towering mountain ranges. Nature builds the most jaw-dropping features of the universe, and it does so silently without trying to get attention-where growth is almost never visible right now but is staggering over long periods of time

Because his podcast is about money and finances, you can imagine where he goes from there for the next six minutes (click here to listen). When I heard this, my mind went down the personal growth lane. For that matter, life in general.

Of all the thoughts available to chase, mine went toward the gift this visual offers. Along with our striving for vocational success or relationship health or spiritual depth often comes a dump truck load of impatience. The vision demands speed, the approval starts the countdown, and the comparison creates competition.

Culture loves demands, countdowns, and competition. The countercultural eternity in our hearts draws us to pause, reflect, and look up.

May we grow in our trust that what God is after in every part of our lives will be accomplished at the right time. Rushing is futile. Hurrying is human.

Photo by Patrick Mayor on Unsplash

What’s God Missing?

Seasons. Life has them. That includes nature. That also includes humans.

God doesn’t have seasons. He is constant, the same yesterday, today, forever. So when we go through a season that doesn’t include him or creates distance between us, what does that mean for him?

What brings us into such a season? 

  • It may be a season where time management is a challenge, and one of the things that suffers is our alone time with God. 
  • It may be a season where you are transitioning into a new job, a new city, a new family dynamic, and it hasn’t dawned on you to figure out where your time with God fits into the new. 
  • It may be a season where you are simply dry, and time alone with God feels even more dry. 

Whatever brought on this season, all you know is that you miss your time with God. You know what you miss, and you’re trying to recapture it. To recapture it, maybe even enter a season yet to be experienced, what if you answered this question: What is God missing?

If you’re missing whatever you used to get out of the relationship, what is he missing that he used to get out of it? Is he missing…

  • …the opportunity to embrace you?
  • …the chance to guide you?
  • …the time to refresh you?
  • …the avenue to encourage you?
  • …the method to challenge you?
  • …the space for you to worship?
  • …the channel to inspire you?

One thing I’ve experienced is the truth to the promise God made that if we seek him we will find him. Give seeking him a shot by asking him this question. I’m guessing he can’t wait to tell you what he’s been missing.

Happiness, as learned from trees

“How happy is the man who does not follow the advice of the wicked or take the path of sinners or join a group of mockers! Instead, his delight is in the Lord’s instruction, and he meditates on it day and night. He is like a tree planted beside streams of water that bears its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.” ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭1:1-3‬ ‭HCSB‬‬

The symbolism of the tree brings deeper understanding to truths about happiness.

  • A tree is dependent on the order of creation in order to grow and complete its purpose. Happiness is founded in reliance on our Creator.
  • A tree goes through seasons. Happiness doesn’t have to be contained to just the fruit-bearing times.
  • A tree is nourished by other means than itself. Happiness involves being connected to the rest of God’s creation.
  • A tree stays in one place. Happiness can largely be found in knowing your God-given purpose and living it out.