10 Questions to ponder when you think you know a “Judas”:

1. How am I praying for them?
   
2. What role might I play in their redemption?
   
3. Has anyone approached them with the truth?
   
4. What is missing from my knowledge of their story that would help my encounters with them?
   
5. What wholesome character traits are shown by their behaviors? What damaging traits?
   
6. Has grace been offered? If so, is there room for more? When does the grace end?
7. When will it be time to withdraw? What’s the line that when crossed severs the relationship?
8. What may be the root of cyclical behavior?
9. What choices do you have when no offense has occurred but their character indicates it’s just a matter of time?
10. What does God want me to learn from this relationship?