I just finished reading Boundaries For Your Soul by Kimberly Miller and Alison Cook. Chances are, since you’re human and created with a soul, you will glean help for your life when you read this book.
Questions you could ask yourself that would indicate so:
- Are there emotional parts of me that I don’t like?
- Are there emotional responses I have that I don’t understand?
- Is there something I’m burdened with that needs resolution?
- Do my prayers about these things seem unheard or useless and have left me wondering if God cares?
We’ve all had these questions. These ladies have some help for us in their work.
An example from the last chapter entitled “Boundaries With Challenging Parts of Others” involves some insight based on brain science. They discuss the difference between the “thinking” brain and the “emotional” brain. In their discussion they show how important it is to know the difference and to achieve the balance possible when both brains work together. The quote I found intriguing was actually from another Christian psychiatrist’s, Curt Thompson, book Anatomy of the Soul.
We are more interested in knowing right from wrong (a dominantly left-brain hemisphere function used to cope with fear and shame) than knowing God, which requires the integration of all parts of the brain. Our quest to be “right” – a cognitive activity – can actually keep us from deep connection and a holistic knowledge of God and others.
Oh, how many Christians need to be done with the “right” quest, including me.
See what I mean now? Get your hands on this book and see what other insights await you.