Have you ever finished something that you started with dread or uncertainty or self-doubt and thought, “Well, that wasn’t so bad”?
Maybe you jumped out of a plane only because your friend coerced you.
Or you survived the dreaded public speaking gig you just knew would end your life.
Or you breathed in relief after that forever-avoided conversation with that family member.
I was surprised at the frequency of the question “would you do it again?” once someone heard of my completing the I-35 Challenge. The answer is, probably not. But that answer has nothing to do with the experience. It has more to do with how completing a once “questionable something” turned “not so bad something” impacts your mindset.
I-35 Lesson #4: Achievement reveals there’s probably something more
I’ve experienced it, and I’ve observed it. The lack of confidence at the start line of a race is always alive and well. And for the first-time runner or the first-time attempt at a distance, it’s as much about your mind as it is your legs, your shoes, or your sunglasses.
But somewhere along the journey to completion, the thought crosses your mind, “I’m actually going to get this done. I can’t believe this.” And for many of us, maybe even most, another thought crosses your mind at some point when it’s all over, “I wonder if I can do more.”
Yes, you can get that degree.
Yes, you can get that promotion.
Yes, you can climb that mountain.
Yes, you can get completely out of debt.
Yes, you can be a great step-mother.
Yes, you can switch careers in your 40’s.
Yes, you can _____________________.
Yes, there’s more.
Would I do it again? Probably not. There’s something more.